Fit check: How to find your style and own it

As the saying goes in Bangladesh, "Agey dorshondhari, pore gunbichari," meaning we often judge by appearance first and then by merit. It is a simple truth we all experience, whether we like it or not.

As designer Humaira Khan, a well-known Bangladeshi designer puts it, "Personal style tends to speak before you speak, resonates towards your philosophy in a nutshell." 

It is like a visual introduction or a reflection of who we are, often telling a story about our personality, values, beliefs and even our mood, without a single word being said on any given day. 

In a world where first impressions matter, understanding your personal style is more important than you think.

Finding your personal style can feel overwhelming, but it is a journey worth taking. Designer Humaira Khan believes it often takes until your 30s to discover your taste truly. She advises patience and exploration. 

Photo: Koral Klauset

"Unfortunately, you do have to go through the process of trial and error," she says. 

She suggests individuals to spend time in stores trying on clothes, not necessarily to buy them, but to understand what works for them. 

"Observe styles you admire, figure out what appeals to you, and adapt them to your body type and personality," Humaira Khan says with a smile. 

According to fashion enthusiast Sadaf Rahman, many people tend to forget that that personal style is about embracing versatility and knowing that it can change over time. 

"Your style will grow with you. What you wear in your 20s might not work for you in your 30s, and that's okay," he says. This flexibility allows you to express different facets of your personality as you grow and change.

Body type plays a crucial role in defining your style. Designer Humaira emphasises that not every dress or cut suits every figure. 

For instance, while flared jeans might suit someone tall, a straight-cut pair could be more flattering for a different body type. She also suggests a simple trick for choosing colours: hold your hand under the fabric to see if it complements your skin tone.

A great place to start is with your existing wardrobe. Experiment with cuts, materials, and timeless classics, tailoring them to suit your frame. 

Shaheda Naznin, a teacher with a deep love for fashion, shares that it is a great idea to invest in quality, timeless pieces that will last. 

"A wardrobe full of fast fashion may offer variety, but timeless pieces such as a tailored blazer or a well-fitting pair of jeans, can be the foundation for endless stylish outfits," Naznin says. "These pieces not only stand the test of time but also allow you to mix and match effortlessly, adding versatility to your style."

Rupo Shams, another Bangladeshi designer and also an exhibition curator of  "Koral Klauset" events,  adds to this by saying, "Building your wardrobe with basics like a white shirt, neutral bottoms, scarves, and statement accessories can elevate even the simplest looks."

Speaking of statement accessories, paying attention to the details is another key aspect of building your personal style. 

Accessories can make a world of difference and can tell a story that goes beyond what the clothes themselves say. Watches, necklaces, scarves, or bracelets can each add depth and character depending on the occasion. 

For many Bangladeshis, personal style is a blend of tradition and modernity. Our rich heritage in fabrics like muslin, jamdani, and khaadi provides a canvas for creativity. 

Designer Rupo says, "Embrace Bangladesh's rich heritage in fabrics, blending them with modern trends to create a unique expression of style." 

By doing this, you're not just putting together an outfit; you're honouring your roots, celebrating tradition, and showcasing our cultural heritage to the world. It's a way to inspire others globally and share the beauty of our rich textile history.

However, building personal style isn't about chasing trends. As Designer Rupo points out, "Trying to follow every trend or copying others without finding your own style is a mistake." Trends can inspire, but they should complement your individuality.

"Your best look comes from being unapologetically yourself," she says. Her concept of comfort transcends physical comfort; it's about emotional comfort, too. Wearing outfits that reflect your true self not only boosts confidence but also helps others connect with you on a deeper level.

Ultimately, personal style is about finding confidence in your choices. It's about wearing clothes that align with who you are, not what others expect you to be. Style is not just about clothes; it's about how you carry yourself.

Shaheda Naznin says, "As I grew older, one thing became clear to me. Finding an individual's personal style is an ongoing process of self-discovery." 

So take your time, try new things, and don't be afraid to make mistakes along the way. There's no rush, no perfect formula, just a journey of understanding what resonates with you.